Young Love... Oh God

Ok so I want to talk about this awkward night... Well this young dude that I hung out with tonight was married and wanted to have a fun night out, whatever... He was buying us shots and drinks just hanging out. He's a new 21 year old so you know how these young bucks have it, they just want to go out with some people his age and just have a good time with his boys. So that's what we did.

He got really drunk I mean we had to tell him "dude no more, you had enough." He eventually puked at the bar and he was told to leave, so we ended and drove to my place since it's a place where there's no one else to interrupt. We had to stop one time so he can vomit but we made it to my place... We ordered pizza and just hung out for a bit, while he was hugging my toilet like it was his new best friend.

For some odd reason I felt to get a little personal with him and asked about his life and his relationship with his wife and his 2 kids. (Mind he's only 21) He said she cheated on him before I just didn't get why he's with her, I mean in my opinion, I'm like that's right off the bat a "no no" and leave right now... obviously though i don't have a wife and kids so I wouldn't really know how to go about that and obviously he cares about them to not leave after HER mistake.

She was texting my other friend about him on his whereabouts and he simply told her that he's had a few drinks with friends no big deal he's cool he'll be home in the hour. She wasn't having any of that she was replying back that he doesn't have free time he should know by now that with kids he's a father 24/7 and doesn't have free time. I mean come on... you were never left to your grandparents or aunts and uncles while your parents went out? I mean my friend had her on speakerphone so I heard everything on what he said and what her reply was. I wanted to bring up like she was the one who EFFin cheated he wasn't, (seriously the whole time we were out in the bar, he didn't say one thing about another chick that was there... that's how dedicated he was to her)

After all the back and fourth my friend was having with her I took it on myself to ask her some questions and went to the other room... I always thought it's always great to ask an out of the blue question to know what someone feels about a certain thing, so I asked her upfront. "Do you love him? " She was taken back a little bit and came up with "He knows how I feel about him and blah blah blah kids blah blah blah" I asked again and only wanted a yes or no, also including on saying that I asked him the same question and he said to me "yes" even though I never asked him, I just wanted this to be over with... She finally gave me a "yes" and I had to use my drama skills saying something close to...

"Wow, I'm speechless right now. I'm a psychology major and I got the same answer from him, (I'm not... it's all acting for me, LOL)I seriously I have goosebumps right now and I can't think of anything at all that's more touching to me, I mean I'm so envious of you guys to find that someone that feels the same way toward one another... What we're gonna do is take him home, so you guys can get a more continue this conversation and work it out, I mean communication is the key and that's what you guys need to do to make it work." (DAMN I am good!)

She had nothing else to say, that was about it right there so we hung up and my buddy took him home, and hopefully that ended good with some good make up sex or something...

Anyway... I don't know what this blog is about... Does this make me look like I'm good at manipulating people? Or I'm really good to helping people out with relationships? Whatever it is I'm not so good when it came to this year's (2009) new years celebration when my friend and his girlfriend were having issues, but that's another story and I don't remember a lot because I was completely drunk and I respect this friend and I don't want to exploit his problem to the world.

I hope you all have a good read...

Another attempt at Vlogging... =FAIL

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I know I haven't posted anything in a while but I want to wish everyone a Happy New Year... '08 was a really crappy year so I'm glad that it's a fresh start, a clean slate, a new beginning.

Coward

I think this maybe random but I'm just not a fan of people that feel they need to shut someone out. Going as far as deleting things that would be associated with that person or a phone number change. In my opinion I rather not have issues go unresolved like that, I would confront and deal with problems and don't cower away from it. The only time I would suggest drastic steps like that is if your life was in danger but other than that... Stop running away from your problems like that, suck it up.

You might have been hurt temporarily but just deal, live your life don't dwell on the past move on...

Vlogging Virgin... Be nice... I'm a Mess!

Oh man, such an epic fail... first time doing this, I'm a vlogging virgin and it shows. I don't know if I'll continue doing this... I don't even know if I'll keep this posted I might end up deleting after a while. Please comment and tell me what you think and if I should continue what do I freaking talk about? AHH!

Finally 3g in Des Moines, IA!

Finally! Des Moines is seriously like the last to get AT&T's 3g network (Well it seems like it) Now faster web browsing on my iPhone! Good DEAL!

I don't know... Let's stop this consistancy! I need advancements!

Broke my iPhone over the weekend... (Supposedly I threw it at a car...) I was really really drunk, I'm embarrassed for anything I did... I completely don't remember, but what I've been told, I'm sorry for whoever was offended and whoever was in my way of my drunken wrath. I know it's a bad night when I wake up naked in my bed, whole hand was bleeding and there's unflushed vomit in the toilet (Thank god I made it to the toilet!)



Either way... This just gaves me an excuse to get the new 3G iPhone that surprisingly I didn't get the day of the release. I actually got the white iPhone the very next day. Someone help me with my damn expenses, I just can't stop myself sometimes.



Another thing... I think I'm at a stage again where I hate my job (once again) I go in and out of this stage continuously and for some reason I can't just get myself to leave. I seriously go into work whenever I want and leave whenever I want. I basically feel like I'm wasting my time. They have stopped given me any new responsibilities. All the people that I try to assist are just complete dumbasses, I'm surprised that we hire some of these people for technical support. Today I took a 3 hour lunch and no one has seem to questioned me about it. I know people would love to have my position of not going on phones and all of your bosses don't give a damn what you do, but as I do this everyday I lose more and more motivation to keep up what I'm there for. I think I need to talk to someone about this, I mean I know I'm better than this.

I kind of want some attention there...
I feel like I'm at a complete lost...
I feel my time is just getting wasted when I can get more from it...
I'm walking a flat road with no more mountains to move to higher ground...
I basically want people to need me.

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